June 17, 2013

June 2013 Book Club "Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon's Journey into the Afterlife"



Hi Everyone,


What can I say about the Butler Symphony Garden Tour yesterday? It was heavenly, peaceful, inspiring, and socially invigorating! Words, just as Eben Alexander III tries to use to explain his near death experience in his book Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon’s Journey Into the Afterlife, do not come close to detailing the many sensory images we enjoyed as we strolled through the breathtaking gardens on the tour. 
 
Barb K., Becky F., Lori, and I met along with Theresa Beck at the Country Kitchen for breakfast to start our book club’s special day. After our diner fare, we drove to Walter Woods, the outdoor sanctuary that Dr. Walters, our childhood dentist and his wife nurtured over the many years living in their home. Dr. Walters greeted us in the field where we parked. I just had to thank him not only for my good teeth but for his kindness. I didn’t know if he remembered, but he opened his office on a Sunday to attend to a severe toothache I was having as a teen to perform a root canal. What dentist would do that today?

Dr. Walter’s wife was as kindly as her husband. She offered us water at the house and even invited us in for a brief tour of their comfy home. Interesting pieces of antique furnishings such as Dr. Walter’s dental implement bureau and a coffee table that belonged to her father add topics for conversation to their den. Mrs. Walters wanted so much for us to stay and watch a video with her of her hosta gardens, but not being a digital native, she was unable to work the DVD player. In her defense, out of the five of us, none of us were able to get the “play” function to operate either! Sadly, we had to leave Walter Woods and the hospitality and friendship we shared for that short hour. Little did we know that our day would be filled with conversations with passionate gardeners whose hearts are as warm and earthy as the soil they tend.

Leslie and Joan Ames welcomed us in their distinctive British accent to their lovely home that overlooks the Freeport-Butler bike trail. Prim and petite, Joan scooted around the gardens in her skirt and vinyl garden boots ready to identify each and every plant. All too amazing to describe were the glacial boulders, the natural features enhancing their beautiful backyard. From the rocky cliffs Joan designed a magnificent waterfall feature that flows into a lovely lily pond. Augmenting Joan’s enthusiastic details were the interesting anecdotes her husband Leslie added. A true English gentleman, Leslie endeared us even more to his gardens and his home.

All of the gardens and their owners were lovely people. We became so entranced in the mystical qualities a beautiful garden exudes that we almost forgot to discuss our book. Stopping at the Meridian Station for the Symphony’s refreshments, we sat under their peaceful gazebo and ate at one of the tables covered in floral linens and centered with a basket of mixed budding annuals. There we examined many passages that detailed and authenticated Eben Alexander III’s near death experience (NDE).

We mulled over Alexander’s pronoun for God, the term “Om.” As I said at the beginning of this letter, Alexander had difficulty describing and putting words to his near death experience. “Om” or omniscient was the sound he remembered for God. Alexander also remembers Om’s revelation that there are many universes and that love lies at the center of all of them. The understanding that evil is present in all of them but only in trace amounts should comfort us all. Alexander learned that “… evil is necessary because without it, free will is impossible, and without freewill there can be no growth, no chance for us to become what God longed for us to be.” As horrible as that may sound, the truth that “love” always triumphs over evil is the greatest lesson Alexander remembers. Love above all is what Alexander wants us to learn, we are loved more than our human minds can understand. His book is written to announce this truth, not just to the mainstream but to the educated elite. 

As a scientist and doctor, Alexander has learned something through his NDE that can transform the way of scientific medicine for the future. He has learned that “consciousness is not only very real- it’s actually more real than the rest of physical existence and most likely the basis of it all.” As a neurosurgeon who understands the human mind as very few people in the world can equally claim, Alexander believes that his illness was specifically chosen from all other diseases so that his NDE could unfold and be analyzed and scrutinized by himself, a scientist of the human mind, and others in his field. He hopes that others scientists will open up to a reality that indeed there is a realm that goes beyond death that no scientific expert has yet to comprehend. We owe Dr. Alexander a world of thanks for writing this book which puts him in a place within his profession where he is susceptible to mockery.

Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon’s Journey into the Afterlife was the perfect book to discuss on the day of our garden tour. As we were all feeling the healing and restorative qualities that cultivate from time spent in nature’s splendor, we did indeed sensed the breath of heaven in our conversation. “A warm wind blew through, like the kind that spring up on the most perfect summer days, tossing the leaves of the trees and flowing past like heavenly water. A divine breeze,” as Alexander describes and we felt it.
Next month’s book takes us from the serious to the humorous. We chose Bon Appetit by Carolyn Haines as our next reading fare. Echoing a humor that verges between a few of our past picks like the murder mystery One for the Money and the craziness of Shop-o-holic, I’m not certain what we are getting into with this one, but with the cast of zany characters and kooky plotline, we are sure to spend the month of July laughing from, ideally, our beach chairs!

Our next meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17, at Randita’s Grill, an organic vegan cafĂ©, in Saxonburg at 6 PM to discuss Bon Appetit. We can sit on their garden patio and try some of the many delicious menu choices Randy makes home made in the restaurant’s kitchen. Her food is truly an experience from her meatless meatballs, her homemade lime vinegrette salad dressing, to her African soup. Check out the Facebook link:  https://www.facebook.com/RanditasGrill to find out more. 

Hope to see you there to discuss Butler Women of Wisdom’s discuss 93rd book!

Tammy :)

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